So more about Charlize. or charlie as i like to call her..... THere are many sides to her, the charlie i know is young, bit of an outrageous thing, and man can she talk her ass off.... Theres also charlie the house wife, and whats funniest is charlie the government department worker, who has more than half a brain.... She has always been a bit of a maneater, having a few highschool relationships before meeting and settling with Ryan.......

4 yrs later charlie had an affair with her 38yr old work colleague, and little beknown to us at the time she was in love with this man and was considering leaving Ryan for him...... They had been seeing each other in secret for a few months, and things come to a head when steven( work colleague) rung ryan at work one summers day and told him of the affair, ryan hit the roof, grabbing a plank of wood and storming out of his workplace in search of retaliation..

well actually i dont know what he was looking for, but he went straight home to find his unfaithful partner..... Charlie held her breath and waited patienctly for Ryan to arrive home, freaking out about how he was going to react..... Well Ryan got home, smashed a few photo frames, and busted a wall unit, all in all i thought he handled himself very well..... A deeply ashamed charlie come face to face with the consequences of her actions, and all she felt was sorrow..... Charlie tried hard in the next few weeks doing what she could to save her relationship and family, Ryan needed space away from people, family, and especially the " other guy" in fear he might do something he would live to regret.... So he made the decision to move to Australia, and a truely broken hearted charlie followed her heart, leaving their daughter with parents while they established there new life in a foreign land.... For Charlie, this was what she had to do for her family, for her man, so 2 weeks after that phone call Charlie and Ryan departed for the life and prospects that aussie had to offer...

Life in Aus wasnt good for my girl, she was home sick, she cried every nite, but in many ways gave Ryan the reassurance he needed that what they have was worth saving.... However Ryan couldnt stand to see his unhappy partner any longer, so he sent her home to her daughter and family whom she was longing for.... Returning himself 1 month later..... So life continues with the pair, portrayals forgiven but not forgotten.....